Dating A Christian Man When Youre Not. If you’re dating one who just seems to not care about making you feel special and cared for the way you do of him, don’t waste any more of your energy. In fact, “loves god and puts him first” was always on the top of the list of what i was looking for.

Often, christian dating rules don’t take into account that the desire to be married is not only real but very good. Whenever i'm going through emotional turmoil or have a tough decision to make, she'll say, 'i'll pray for you.' God must be at the center of your life before you consider dating.

If he can’t date you properly, don’t date him at all.

They are told that marriage is a wonderful thing and they hear all these love stories sprinkled through the pastor's sermon, but they are also told they must not do anything but wait to be found by the man of their dreams. If you’re dating one who just seems to not care about making you feel special and cared for the way you do of him, don’t waste any more of your energy. As i mentioned, he should not do this until he is “ready” to marry. As a quick aside, if you are a single man and you would not describe yourself as ready to be married within a year, think about why that is.